During my interviews and Facebook live broadcasts I never fail to ask this question from my guests: what makes a woman attractive and sexy? Answers vary but rarely about the outside beauty. So I wonder why can’t we believe that sexy has nothing to do with looks or sizes?
To me a woman is attractive when she knows her worth. The one who radiates that she won’t tolerate anything below her standards or otherwise she just walks away. Because she knows what and whom she deserves. A confident woman is sexy who enters the room with her charisma uplifting and not scaring others. The one next to whom you also believe that you deserve to shine bright, too because you are worth it. Because confidence lifts up and not tears others down.
A woman is attractive when she plays no more games and enters no more unnecessary rounds because she has learnt to express herself. If she loves, she shows that, if she wants to compliment another women, she does it without being afraid to make herself less by doing so.
A sexy woman takes good care of herself and her surroundings. She knows perfectly how to handle her body, she respects it, no matter what clothes she wears, her values don’t change. She is confident in a jumper and her charisma shines through whatever she wears.
A woman is attractive when she stops living her life according to other people’s expectations. She wears whatever she wants to, whether you like it or not. What matters to her is having integrity and being in harmony with her own self.
A smile is really sexy. It can be a playful one, a nice one to calm you down and make you feel comfortable and it can also be an encouraging one to make you believe that you are the best man in the room. A woman’s smile is a true weapon and it can win people immediately.
Being unique is attractive, your gestures, your tone of voice, your laughing which all yours and they have a message to the world: I dare to be myself. If you like me like this, that’s fine but if you don’t, that’s fine too. This is who I am.
Integrity is sexy. When you know who are are and not afraid to show it to the world, confidentallly. Do you know such a woman?