The other day I read an article (by a male writer) which lists 4 types of women whom men want to bring to the bed immediately. Yeah, you got that right, my eyebrow hit my hairline too when I read the post since it gives the impression that we don’t want anything else but to be dragged to a man’s bed. Plus it is quite sexist and discriminative since it tells you how you MUST be and act in order to be the lucky and chosen one.
I won’t go into the many wounds of this article but instead I decided to share my contra opinion from a female’s perspective what type of men we want to see in the morning (and not only to satisfy our biological needs). I follow the above mentioned article’s categories and let me emphasize that this is my list, of course we think differently and you may not agree with each point but here is my list:
1. “The lustful” – The mindful
“..even their ankles whisper that this woman knows her duty in bed” says the article about the lustful category of females. Well, we also like mutual fun which causes pleasure to both parties. So it is not a bad thing if a man sees beyond his masculiune bodyparts and finds our erotic zones, moreover, touch them to bring us to the mood. A strong shoulder will not do the trick, neither a dic pick will replace foreplay. Yeah, we like attentive men who pay attention to us, who learn what is good for us and what to avoid. Let’s make it clear: if a man can’t do that to us, he better do it alone!
2. “The booty queen” – The sapiosexual
Probably you got the hint already in my previous point, women are less likely to be totally won over solely by visuals. “Of course, a nice booty is not about the brain and the books we both read but it is irresistible for sure..” as the writer puts it. Speaking of irresistible, I must mention the witty chats, the fun talks and getting each other’s jokes since the path to our booty is paved by those. Get my brain first to get my body.
3. “The talkative, the smiling one” – The respectful
“..Those who argue with a beautiful woman must have some genetic deficit because you need to just chit-chat with them. Guys are already wandering around the bra during these talks and when no words left, the girl just smiles..” I get it, I know what is the point but can you take us as human beings (and not only boobs, two long legs and a booty) instead? Respect can make miracles and we love when you pay attention (instead of just staring blankly at us or checking our boobs) when we talk, we like when you ask questions and show interest, we appreciate you waiting for a sign from us (instead of getting under our skirt already during the date) and the most important thing we adore: accepting NO. Because no is a full answer and it requires no further explanation.
4. “The easy one” – The one who wants us
“..Men are complicated because we also like to be turned on by the easy girls”. Nowadays men tend to get lazy (not saying it is entirely their fault) and pick up a “if not you then the next one” attitude. However we don’t like to be treated that way. At least for those few hours get yourself together and stop staring at the booty of the waitress and don’t check your Tinder messages while being on a date with us. Extra bonus if you remember our earlier talks so we know you pay attention and you want us. Not the other girls.
The list is far from complete but that was not my point at the first place. However I am curious about your opinion, what would you need to see a man happily on the morning after? Add your list, write a comment on my Facebook page!