#dailyPLUS: Just be who you want to be, not what others want to see!
„You have changed so much!” „I don’t understand why you act like this, you used to be different!” I am sure all these sound familiar, right? I’m not saying that all cases are the same but quite often what happens is you start to be yourself. You realize that you deserve respect. This can result in a change of behaviour which can be seen as a strange thing for others around you, like you are not yourself. However it is the contrary: you just start to be yourself, you do things which make you feel happy. Just as you can’ expect a duckling to be a swan (she may pretend for a while but can’t fake it too long), noone can expect you to be someone else. Someone who behaves as others want them to, someone who chooses a carreer what others want them to. This is your life, be the director of it!