We all know some certain individuals who somehow find joy in criticising others and destroying their happy moments with some sour comments. But you must know that these people are the ones in biggest need of help and support as their miserable lives are filled with frustration, bad intention and they completely lack self-confidence. They are convinced that criticising others will bring a good feeling to their lives but how could you fix yourself by breaking someone else? Your life will not become better by being mean to others. You should better focus on your own life, face your fears and build yourself up starting from the foundation. You won’t receive acceptance by attacking others so the comment „only dogs play with bones” will not make a plus size girl loveable (actually, on the contrary).
Believe me when I say that hurting others will not take you anywhere. Be more open towards others and focus on your own inner self by putting together the puzzle of your life. Breaking others will not help you in this process, on the contrary: you will just feel worse afterwards!
A cup of happiness with Susie
(my inspirational column on Tchibo Hungary’s Facebook page)