Today I read a very interesting article in Hungarian (thanks EniWays) and discovered a movie I never seen before: Pay it forward! I definitely want to watch it now as I fell in love with the little school boy and his radical idea: lets help 3 people who will also help 3-3-3 people so slowly we bring a change to the world. It was so inspirint and I truly believe in this change!
Imagine if we finally start focusing on the really important values of a woman which are NOT determined by her look? We receive not 3 but minimum 33 messages daily which all try to prove the opposite: we are not good enough, not young enough, not pretty enough etc. Lets play with the idea and begin a life changing „game”. 90% of compliments concentrate on outside beauty so lets turn it around! Choose 3 people (men or women) in your environment and give them a compliment based on their inner values – whether it is their sense of humour, their commited motherhood or smart ideas. Things which has NOTHING to do with physical appearance.
Lets say 500 women will read this article and 100 of them decide to join this „game” which means 300 compliments and 300 lives changed to the better with 300 people’s days brighten up! 300 people will shift focus to the real values! It doesn’t sound so impossible, right?
Please join whether on Facebook by tagging your friends in a post, listing their values as compliments based on their true values or at your work place or in your school. No matter where you are, it will bring a wind of change to the world! From today on I will also start spreading this movement on my Periscope channel, on my Facebook page and everywhere I go. I may be a dreamer but I believe that the widespread body hate and shame can be stopped! Let US, positive people be the majority!
In English I will use the #PayBoPoForward hashtag which seems a bit long buti t summarizes all – please pass it on and start using it on all of your social channels.
Will you pay it forward? I’d appreciate it!